Why You Must Be Open to Love Before You Will Know You Have Met Your Soul Mate

Have you ever heard the saying you'll see it when you believe it? Well what happens when you need to believe something in order to see it? This is the case with knowing whether you have your soul mate in your midst- you really need to believe in him first before you can attract him or see him and this is difficult for lots of women to do- until now.

The first thing you must do is be open to the possibility that there is a way to have a loving relationship with one guy over a life time (baring death) Now if that is a bit of a stretch for you believe in the possibility of women being able to have loving relationship with a nice guy.

If that is okay for you then you can move on to believing or noticing in your every day life that there are women who have stayed married to the same guy for a life time.

Once you can find evidence for that, then you can move up a gear and now believe that in order to stay married to one guy there are things you must know first, but those things are easy to access and perfectly reasonable for you to have in your skill base.

So how are you doing so far?

Good.

To move up another gear- look in your everyday life to find evidence that not all women or men have affairs- they couldn't could they? Even if you have to shift cultures, marriages do work do they not?
So let's shift up a gear again.

What evidence is there that it's possible that you given your background can meet a lovely guy despite the fact that you haven't already? To help you with this, first look at how similar you are to other women who are in great, loving relationships and note that you have your good points and bad points just like every other woman on this planet.

So this isn't a barrier for you meeting a nice guy is it?

Now we come to the last jump- the idea that you can have a soul mate.

Well my last question to you is- what would you need to believe about yourself for this to be a possibility?
And when you answer- start making those suggested changes, and this you will allow you to believe in your having a soul mate which in turn will allow you to be open to attracting him mate and when you meet him you will know you have him there.

As a Relationship Coach, Elaine Bothwell has been helping women attract and create a loving and fulfilling relationship with their ideal man for 10 years now. She also helps women put the spark back into their marriage.