To Kiss on the First Date Or to Wait?

Now there is a question posed over and over. Have you ever heard a definitive answer to that one? Actually, I don't believe there is one... unless the answer is, "it depends."

Of course it depends. Upon what does it depend? Taken to the basic elements of the formula, it depends on the two of you. Kissing is still a one-on-one event. It is too often considered a prelude, and not the main event. That diminishes the impact and the value of the kiss. It makes it a part of the sex act in a way. May I be the first to observe that that is a good thing, and like all good things it should be savored and not devoured.

If you want the kiss to stand on its own; if you want the kiss to make her weak in the knees, to take her breath away, then the kiss itself must be the main event. Main event kissing is an art. As with any art form, the skill set of the practitioners, the motivation and the outcome vary. Could Leonardo da Vinci have painted the Mona Lisa without having developed his skills first? Could Michelangelo have painted the Sistine Chapel without assistance?

The message here is that everything is viewed in comparisons. How do you fare in comparison? Do you not want the power to take a woman's breath away - with nothing more than a kiss? I dare say that you do. Well I'll tell you that I do, but I'll wager that you would as well.

Take the time to learn the art and then find a lucky lady to be the recipient of the memorable kiss. If that doesn't work for both of you, then both of you should look elsewhere. Kissing is not just a prelude, but prelude kissing with an impact and now everything is likely to be better. Of course, if you don't learn the art, it is easier for those men who do.


Peg Sausville created an online survey for women about what they want in kissing. Over 300 women responded to the survey and from those responses she wrote the book, "The Truth About How to Kiss Women." These women provided insider information on what they really want and are looking for in the kissing experience. Their responses were unfiltered and candid. Don't lose out again - get the girl by giving her the kisses she wants!

And women, if you know a man who needs a little education, this is the perfect book for him - he'll learn what to do and what not to do - what turns her on and what turns her off - and the thing he should NEVER do when kissing a woman.