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Thursday, October 1, 2009

How to Get a Girl by Creating Mystery - Mind Blowing Tactics You Do Not Want to Miss at All

For some reason, a mysterious person is attractive, for both men and women. Someone who goes all out and lets down all his or her defenses is considered easy, and interest in such person fades away as fast as it was built. A mysterious person, however, builds anticipation around this interest, and uses it to buy time and allow a person to get to know him or her slowly and surely. It also makes for sweeter endings, and encourages fun in the relationship.

If you are a guy, and you're tired of being overly transparent, you can try these tips to keep a woman guessing, thus getting her interest and affection.

Act reserved. There's something about a guy who doesn't throw himself into the arms of ogling girls. A guy, who can walk straight and look straight, oblivious to the stares of women who like him is definitely a man of mystery.

Society has dictated us to view men as someone who wants booty when and where he sees it, and guy who isn't like that, is either gay, or extremely refreshing. So when you walk into a room, be the man who was raised to be level-headed and composed.

Instill trust and don't talk about yourself. You can say random things about yourself, but let the girl do most of the talking. This is because girls enjoy conversations when someone who listens to them, since talking is one of their can-t-live-without hobbies.

If you let her talk, you won't have time or the chance to talk about yourself so at the end of the day when she's revealed some private things about her, she asks herself, "What do I know about this guy?"

Send mixed signals. Be nice, but be totally aloof. Be really interested in what she's saying, but don't engage her. Send her flowers, but be nonchalant the next time you see her. Buy her a drink, but don't stick with her the entire night. Be caring, but act natural when she talks to other men. This will really confuse her, and she'll be more into pursuing you to know just what your intentions are.

Little surprises go a long way. Never take the person out to the same place twice. Be creative with dates. Steal her away from work when she's least expecting it, and take her to lunch. You can also just take her out without telling her where, so that she's on her toes waiting to find out.

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